“Problems are like washing machines. They twist, they spin and knock us around. But in the end we come out cleaner, brighter and better than before.”– Unknown
What is the secret ingredient that enables tough people to succeed? Why do they survive the tough and challenging times when others are overcome by them? Why do they win when others lose? Why do they soar when others sink?
Well, studies conducted on these people have all shown that it’s how they perceive their problems. They understand some principles that pertain to all problems. These people do not allow their problems to push them around, instead they allow their dreams to lead them.
The principles tough people approach their problems with are:
Every problem will change you
Tough people know problems are not meant to leave us the same way they found us. They embrace the fact that problems are like washing machines. They twist you, spin you and knock you around, but by the time they are done with you, you’re stronger and better than before. Don’t approach your problems with a victim’s mindset, embrace them because they carry with them a seed of greatness.
You can choose what your problem will do to you
Whatever you do, never let a problem become an excuse for your inaction. Whenever you are dealing with a problem, don’t think emotionally. Don’t let your emotions decide for you, use your brain. Larry De Angelo said it succinctly: “Life is like a grinding stone – it can polish you or pulverise you, depending on how you position yourself.”
Exactly, you’ll either be polished to a shine or ground into powder, depending on how you show up.
